Wilderness Reserve

How to host a destination 
wedding... in the UK 
 

Long-haul flights and logistical headaches are optional. The answer to the long wedding weekend might be closer to home 

21 JULY 2026

Photo: Wilderness Reserve

The three-day wedding weekend is here to stay - and it’s coming home. A growing number of couples are choosing to host destination-style weddings on home soil, swapping airport queues for the particular pleasures of the British countryside.


Venues across the country are responding in kind, moving beyond the traditional single-day format to offer exclusive-hire, multi-day experiences - and couples are treating the days before and after as seriously as the wedding day itself. 


“The surrounding events are definitely becoming more important - they really set the tone for the whole weekend,” says Chenai Bukutu, founder and lead planner of ByChenai Events. “Multi-day weddings also lend themselves to multicultural celebrations. Our South Asian clients often host a Sangeet the night before, or perform religious ceremonies ahead of their civil wedding.”

 

Here, we asked Chenai to walk us through how to do it well.

How does a multi-day wedding weekend typically take shape?

"The format is usually a welcome dinner or party on Friday, the main event on Saturday, and a relaxed brunch or pool party on Sunday. Some couples have also taken it a step further and built in on-site activities - clay pigeon shooting, wild swimming, Highland games, whisky tastings - which work particularly well for guests travelling from afar."

Exclusive venue hire seems to be increasingly popular. Why do you think that is? 

"It really comes down to immersion. Couples want to be good hosts, which is logistically easier when all guests are on site together. We often consider hotel takeovers as well as traditional wedding venues for this reason. Pool parties are very much requested, particularly for summer events, though availability depends heavily on what the venue offers."

Where in the UK do you think works best for this kind of wedding?

"Cornwell Manor and Wilderness Reserve are both great options. But we’ve also planned multi-day weddings in London, the Cotswolds and Scotland across multiple venues. London has so much diversity in venue style. The Cotswolds and Scotland bring the outdoor pursuits and the landscape, along with some of the country’s most beautiful hotels, restaurants, castles and stately homes. There’s logistically a little more involved, but from a guest experience perspective, you really get to show off the best of the UK."

"On a single-day wedding, everything can feel time-pressured. A long weekend provides more time to relax and make memories with friends and family"

Minerva Vines. Photo: Lewis Membery

OWN Bride Ellery wearing STYLE 116 at her wedding in the English countryside. Photo: Ruth Atkinson

What’s your advice for couples in planning mode?

"Choose a venue that genuinely excites you both, that ticks off your most important criteria and that offers as much flexibility as possible. If you’re considering a dry hire or blank canvas space, know that it may end up costing more than you think - you’re effectively building your own event, which means no built-in staffing or room service at 2am. 

 

And finally, get help - planning a multi-day event is very involved. At ByChenai Events, no two weddings are the same. We focus on personalising each experience for our couples and their guests and creating an immersive, relaxed atmosphere where guests feel like they’re on holiday."